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No Good Deed Goes Unpunished

Posted: August 15th, 2007 | Author: raddevon | Filed under: Society |

So goes the sage advice of one of my coworkers. This adage was put into practice on me today.

I took a trip to the library then to Market Square to get some food. I was asked for money by a bum. I told him I would buy him food instead. He told me he wasn’t allowed into any of the restaurants. I told him I would bring it out to him. I go to the restaurant, order food, and sit down to wait. I get up and look out the door once to see that he is still there. He is still outside, but has moved to a different part of the square. I sit down again and continue to wait for my food. My food arrives, and I take his food outside before even starting on mine. He is gone. I eat my food, exit the restaurant, and spend a few minutes looking for him, but he is nowhere to be found.

I feel that, whenever I get burned like this, I must take something with me to prevent it from happening again. It seems to me that the only way is to refuse any handouts to any bums. I want to be nice, but what can I do when my philanthropic efforts are thwarted?

What do people do who live in bigger cities where this is a more pervasive part of everyday life? I have heard that panhandlers in NYC make $50,000 per year. Is it good to give only to organized charities and always refuse bums?

What a conundrum.

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